Self-esteem refers to how you see yourself, your self-worth, and the value you place on yourself. When you have low self-esteem, you may struggle with negative thoughts about yourself, doubt your abilities, have low confidence, and feel undeserving of success or happiness. This can create a cycle of self-criticism that makes it harder to live a fulfilling life. Low self-esteem can also show up as people-pleasing, perfectionism, fear of rejection, or seeking reassurance from others.
Struggle with constant self-criticism or negative self-talk.
You often judge yourself harshly, feel like you're never good enough, or find it difficult to recognise your strengths. Therapy can help challenge unhelpful beliefs and develop a more balanced, compassionate view of yourself.
Rely heavily on others for reassurance or approval. If your self-worth depends on what others think of you, it can feel exhausting and unstable. Therapy offers space to explore these patterns and strengthen your internal sense of value and identity.
Feel held back by past experiences or ongoing shame. Low self-esteem is often linked to difficult past events, such as bullying, criticism, or trauma. Therapy can help you process these experiences and begin to rebuild a healthier relationship with yourself.
Louise Hay

Therapy for low self-esteem at Resilient Mind Therapies offers a supportive and structured space to explore what has shaped the way you see yourself. Whether you're struggling with self-criticism, low confidence, or the effects of past experiences, we use CBT and EMDR to help you understand the root causes and start building a stronger sense of self-worth.

We tailor therapy to your individual needs and goals, using practical tools to manage negative thinking, challenge unhelpful beliefs, and strengthen your self-confidence. You’ll be supported to build a more balanced and compassionate view of yourself, at a pace that feels right for you. There are no long waiting lists, so you can access support when you need it. Sessions are available in-person in Leicester or online, depending on what works best for you.
Starting therapy can feel like a big step, and it’s normal to have questions. Below are some common questions about therapy for low self-esteem, confidence and self-worth.
Yes, therapy can help you understand what may have shaped your low self-esteem and why negative beliefs about yourself may feel so difficult to shift. CBT can help you challenge unhelpful thinking patterns, while EMDR may be helpful if difficult past experiences continue to affect how you see yourself.
Low self-esteem can develop for many different reasons. For some people, it may be linked to criticism, bullying, difficult relationships, trauma, perfectionism, or repeated setbacks. Over time, these experiences can affect confidence, self-worth, and the way you see yourself.
Yes, low confidence often develops alongside low self-esteem. Therapy can help you build confidence by addressing self-doubt, fear of failure, and unhelpful beliefs that may be holding you back.
Sometimes, experiences such as criticism, bullying, emotional neglect, rejection, or growing up in difficult environments can affect self-esteem later in life. Therapy can help you process these experiences and build a healthier relationship with yourself.
Yes, online therapy is available across the UK and in-person appointments are available in Leicester and Leicestershire.
This depends on your experiences and goals. CBT can help you recognise and challenge negative thinking patterns, while EMDR may help if past experiences continue to affect your confidence, self-worth, or relationships.

At Resilient Mind Therapies, I offer CBT and EMDR for low self-esteem and confidence in-person in Leicestershire and online. I also work with BABCP-accredited associate therapists across the UK who offer online support. Together, we provide practical, personalised therapy without long waiting lists.
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